I had conceived a couple of years ago, but got it aborted without letting anyone know. Since a year now, my husband and I have been longing for a child and it has not been possible. I constantly feel guilty that it might be due to the abortion I had. Don't know what to do. :(
My husband is not yet ready for the baby but I really want a kid. We have been married for last 5 years. So i tracked my cycle and had unprotected sex with him during the fertile days. Told him later that took i-pill but I didnt. Hope i get pregnant this time.
hi everyone! im very new to Ela but i just wanted to share my story with all you ladies who maybe can relate and could maybe answer all of my unanswered questions. February 2017 i lost my sweet baby at 35 weeks. Nothing has made me feel like such a failure in my entire life. Not only to my baby and my family, but to myself. Things like this arent supposed to happen nobody should ever have to go through this. Doctors, nurses and my gymo are still unable to tell me why this happened and it is eating me alive, a part of me left the day i lost her. Everyone tells me that its not my fault but i cant seem to blame anybody but myself. Alot of our friends and family think trying again may really help me and my fiancee. i would just like to get someone's opinion who may have experienced this before or something similar to ease my mind.