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5 Top Love Languages to express Love to Your Partner - Understand their Secrets

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Medically Reviewed by Dr. Deepika Tiwari - MBBS on 30 Jul 2018 - Written by Dr. Rachna Verma - MBBS - Grammatically Approved by Dr. Kavita Jaggi Agrawal - MBBS

If you want to express your love to your partner, then you can utilize love languages and make them feel special and loved. Love language secrets include praise partner, gift partner, spending quality time, positive physical contact, and mainly sharing responsibilities.

Love is an elusive emotion, which is difficult to express in words. Love languages and signs help to maintain a healthy love relationship between two people because they provide a way for expressing affectionate feelings for each other. Understanding five love languages is really important for the couples to maintain a relationship that has a blend of love, care, sharing, happiness, bonding, attachment, trust and existence. Five-love languages will certainly help you in knowing your partner in a better way and hence bringing unbreakable bond between each other. Knowing love language secrets will not only strengthen your relationship but the primary secret of love will help you connect better with your partner.

Learning the secret of love with its five basic languages helps in maintaining everlasting and happier relationship. Time, care, physical attachment, gifts and last but not the least respect are the best five love language which makes relationship free from doubts and troubles. From the below-discussed list of five languages of love and their secrets, you will get a better idea in dealing your love with care through the mantras of love languages. Expressing love becomes very difficult sometimes but understanding love languages will surely help you in clearing your doubts regarding love relationships.

Sometimes, you and your partner may feel the indifferences because of negligence and unavailability of the time. Understanding is the major trick to handle such feelings and for the same; you might look forward to learning five love languages and fill up the space of understanding. Learn the secrets of love languages and take an initiative to improve your relationship. Get ready for the secrets of love that lasts forever.

1. Praise your partner from time to time

Praising him/her for her work, beauty, behavior is another aspect of the beautiful language of love. You need to praise and affirm your partner from time to time to make them feel confident and feel good about themselves. Your words are an essential determinant of a successful love life.  Try showering praises on your beloved in the subtlest yet admirable way by saying something like:

“I like you sparing time for me.”

“I forget my tensions and problems when I talk to you.”

“You are the reason I am always happy.”

“You cook awesome. There is magic in your hands.”

“Somebody is looking gorgeous/handsome today.”

It has been researched that words of affirmation have a deep impact and this is the reason why it’s included among the five languages of love. It has been physiologically proved; humans deeply need to be praised for their work, both in personal as well as professional life.

Praise your partner from time to time

2. Gifts, Surprises and a glimpse of a smile 

Be it small or big, a gift reflects your love for your loved ones in one of the most special ways. Different people have their own ideas about expressing love. For some, sending or receiving gifts is the true spirit of love, a way of saying I love you a lot.

This is the easiest love language that one can learn and impress their partner in a cute, simple and exclusive manner. Gifts can be anything expensive or inexpensive, but the element of surprise attached to them is what adds sparkle in the eyes of your precious one. Write and send beautiful love messages to your partner from time to time to make them feel your love.

3. Spending Quality Time

Giving quality time to your partner will always make them feel your love and presence. More than anything else time has always been the factor deciding the term and quality of the relationship. Your partner will always understand you if you are sparing time for him/her to develop close bonding. The right amount of time spent together has its own role in a relationship, and if you fail to grab the opportunities to be with your loved one at the right time, complications and hurdles become inevitable.

You need to take care of every major and minor event and moments together which might make your relationship hilarious as well as beautiful. While cooking, being with her/him and helping each other during the day-to-day chores are the best ways to speak your language of love.

Spending quality time

While watching television, talking to each other is the best sign of love language and closeness. Shopping together time is the most important factor. There can be a lot of situation where the need is to be just beside him/her.

4. Physical Touch

Another way of effectively communicating your feelings and affection can be none other than physical touch. Touch gives sensation and adds thrill in your love life. This is the best love language that has to be there in between two lovers. Holding hands, kissing, hugging, and sitting beside each other, sleeping on the lap are some of the lovely examples of physical touch.  Exchanging physical touch with your loved ones has always been the way to achieve an affectionate and true bond of love. Touching him/her is also the best way to develop togetherness and closeness between each other. Physical touch always helps in strengthening a relationship.

Physical touch

5. Special Favor: The way to good turn

Not to forget, favoring them every now and then is one of the best languages of love, which creates a true bond. Special favor is one of the five love languages, which can be different for every individual. Sharing responsibilities and offering them a helping hand in their everyday tasks add a new dimension to your connectivity with each other. Doing something good or beyond expectations for the one you love will never be out of fashion and will earn you a lot of respect in their eyes and special place in their heart.  The feeling of love when conveyed through this unique love language will compel him/her to feel proud of you.

Your actions speak louder than words. Planning something out of the box like a surprise trip or a day off looks highly impressive and it’s something that adds an amazing essence to the love chemistry. You can think of various ways to impress your partner. The need of the time is to understand each other in such a way so that your love is able to tackle all the troubles and complications in life.

For a deeper and meaningful love and relationship, these languages lay a firm foundation that only grows stronger with time. It is all required to understand 5 languages of love to help heal the emotional hurts. Every love language is the key to have a beautiful relationship. If you share a strong bond and are planning to get married, go through wedding vows and promises to impress your partner.

Dr. Rachna Verma

Written by

Infertility Specialist, Endocrinologist

Dr. Rachna Verma is a gynecologist and obstetrician presently specializing in Infertility management, IUI, IVF, Hormonal Disturbance Management. Dr. Rachna has completed MBBS from SP Medical College, Bikaner in 1992 and DGO from RNT Medical College in 1996. Then, Dr. Rachna pursued DNB in Obstetrics and Gynecology and MNAMS in Obstetrics and Gynecology from Sir Gangaram Hospital in 1999 and 2000 respectively. She is also a member of National Academy of Medical Sciences. Presently, Dr. Rachna is practicing at Gynae and Imaging Point and Fortis Flt Lt Rajan Dhall Hospital, Delhi. For more information, visit


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Nervan Gurung

My wife and I starve to spend some quality time with each other. I think it is really important to share time but I can't quit my job. Hope this ends soon.

Oct. 5, 2018, 11:23 a.m. 4.5


Vipin Rao

Important points which are a key to healthy relationships are listed in this article. Nice Plug!

Sept. 25, 2018, 9:12 p.m. 5.0


Anjana Gaur

I never forget his special days and try to wish him first every time. He loves romantic lines and poems so, I keep creating new on my own each day.

Sept. 11, 2018, 10:43 p.m. 4.5


Roshan Kumar

Be a good listener. It is very important to listen to your partner, their problems or their happiness. Sharing word is very important.

Aug. 16, 2018, 7:51 a.m. 5.0


Awantika Rathore

Praising him at his every bigger to smaller achievements really wins my husband's heart. He loves to see that I care as whatever he does is only for me.

Aug. 8, 2018, 10:33 a.m. 5.0


Prashanta Gopalakrishnan

July 30, 2018, 2:53 p.m. 4.5

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