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    How to Insert Male Organ into Female Organ

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    Medically Reviewed by Dr. Deepika Tiwari - MS, MBBS on 10 Aug 2019 - Written by Dr. Manavita Mahajan - Diploma, Diploma, MBBS - Grammatically Approved by Dr. Kavita Jaggi Agrawal - MS, MBBS

    How to insert male organ into female organ is an important question in the process of lovemaking. Sexual intercourse plays a significant role in a loving relationship. For a pleasurable experience, it is important to know about foreplay. Sex releases Oxytocin, the feel good hormones.

    Knowing and understanding one’s own sexual organs is of extreme importance to achieve the best results during lovemaking. As far as penetrative sex is concerned, there are different issues a couple can face that may range from physical health problems to mental obstructions. You must know every aspect of the lovemaking and challenges associated with it to gain the maximum out of it. 

    In this article, you can learn about:

    What Is Sex?

    Sex acts like the glue in strengthening the bond between couples. Indulging in sexual activities indicates that things are easy-going between couples. For men, it is important to understand what role emotional connection plays in the lives of women and the way it affects their trajectory of sexual pleasure and satisfaction. (1) It is being told that good sex starts in the head; therefore it is important to talk about it because sex cannot be overemphasized either for men or women. It is equally important for both. Beginners are always keen to know about how to do sex and benefits of sex. Sex can benefit by lowering blood pressure, strengthening muscles, increasing libido, reducing risk of heart disease, stroke, and hypertension. (2) (3)

    How to Insert Male Organ Into Female Organ

    Explained below are certain important factors on how to insert male organ into the female organ.

    1. Play the chase game and don’t come off as too needy and desperate:

    If you are trying it for the first time and are establishing sexual boundaries, it is important to know that sex can be clumsy. Men need to make sure that they are not acting too desperate and while performing sex; their woman is not becoming a victim of forced sex. This gives both the partners a sense of satisfaction and pleasure. Don’t act too needy and let it go with the flow. Take time and gain trust of your partner and make each other comfortable. Wait for the right time and mood to turn your room into your own boudoir. Don’t be a turn off partner by coming on too strongly or being needy about having sex. Allow your partner some space and let them express their feelings about intimacy. Give your partner time to reciprocate. It is a risk and choice worth taking.

    2. Nuzzle and Kiss:

    Physical intimacy is great when it starts with cuddles and kisses. A passionate kiss arouses sexual desire in most women. In order to stimulate your partner’s erogenous zones, try to be close to your partner by caressing or nuzzle around and kissing. This will lead to a more satisfying and pleasurable experience and it will also lead to a stronger sense of closure and safety. Kissing and to nuzzle around help couples to feel connected and helps to warm up their bodies to slowly move towards the intercourse step. This can prove to be helpful for people who are experiencing erection difficulties or have arousal issues to prepare their bodies for sex. Caressing and kissing also help reducing anxiety and stress. (4)

    3. Don’t skip Foreplay, It matters:

    Foreplay, as the name tells, means a sexual activity, which precedes intercourse. The sexual activity can be a series of stimulating your partner’s erogenous zones, kissing, fondling and also by making the entire process a mystery. It is presumed that sex is only penetrative but the act includes foreplay as well. Make sure you get enough of this in before getting started with penetrative sex. It is often the most enjoyable part of the whole sexual intercourse experience because it allows the two of you to experiment with a number of different methods. Studies show that women can orgasm multiple times. Try pleasuring your woman, to get her in the mood for some more and she would thank you for it in more ways than one. Men love to be touched, so make him feel good by kissing him and try to feel his entire body. Make sure you are not the only one hogging all the pleasure. (5)

    4. Wait for the right moment:

    Most couples choose to have foreplay for a long time before moving on to vaginal sex. When both the partners are ready to move towards the vaginal sex, the arousal created during foreplay helps the penis enter the vagina with much ease. Be slow and gentle while getting started with this step. There is no need to hurry; sometimes it takes a few minutes for this. Fondle and stroke your man and while being gentle, show his manhood some authority. Look at each other during sexual intercourse, after all its most intimate experience for couples. It is like assuring your partner and taking ownership of being sexually connected to your partner.

    5. Insertion:

    The insertion of the penis into the vagina is the most crucial part, which revolves around sex. It is important that both the partners should take account of it to avoid taking it to an awful or embarrassing situation. It is important to get the right position for insertion and the male partner can ask his partner to help. To avoid pregnancy, infections or Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) it is great to use protection during insertion. The average size of male organ when flaccid is said to be of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) and the average size of a male organ is measured 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect. The average size of female organ (vagina) is considered to be 3-4 inches long and it can expand 200 percent at the time sexual arousal because the vagina is exceedingly elastic. (6)

    6. Love-making:

    After the initial penetration is completed, both the partners can choose to get indulged in love-making based on their comfort levels. The man needs to make sure to thrust (penis into her vagina) in rhythmic motions and can take reference from the hip to help the woman get maximum pleasure. For better experience and pleasure, watching the partner’s moves and trying doing it in sync and together is better. Also to get a better experience, couples can try different sex positions, as the penis tends to penetrate under different angles by stimulating different vaginal parts.

    7. Towards the end:

    After sharing the general mood of elation, both the partners can choose to be cuddled or held for, as long they love to. There is no need to rush, give your body time to come back to its normal state. You can share your experience with your partner, if you wish to, of spending quality time between the sheets. After all, you both have been partners in each other’s sexual romp.

    8. Wrapping Up:

    The post-coital part can be exciting and awkward for some people. Sharing a chuckle together and flirting a little and letting him or she know how great the experience was, can make your partner feel comfortable. If you have used protection or condom make sure to dispose of it in the right manner by wrapping it a paper or tissue.

    Sexual Disorders related to Men and Women

    Sexual dysfunction is any physical or psychological disorder in men or women that intervene in getting sexual satisfaction for both the partners. Sexual dysfunction is a medical condition, which affects men and women of all ages but is more prevalent with increasing age. Several medical treatments can help men and women suffering from sexual dysfunction. Sexual disorders related to men are Premature Ejaculation, Erectile Dysfunction, and Low libido and sexual disorders affect women by reducing sexual desire, inability to become sexually aroused, Anorgasmia (lack of orgasm) and painful intercourse and difficulty or inability in sustaining an erection essential for penetrative sex. (7) (8)

    Causes of Male Sexual Disorders

    Premature Ejaculation

    Semen ejaculation during sexual intercourse before or immediately after penetration can make it difficult to complete the act. The reasons for premature ejaculation can be both biological and psychological. (9)

    1. Biological Causes

    Factors contributing to premature ejaculation are:

    • Inflammation of the prostate
    • Imbalanced hormone levels
    • Abnormal levels of brain chemicals called neurotransmitters
    • Inherited traits
    • Erectile dysfunction (ED)

    2. Psychological Causes

    Psychological factors contributing to premature ejaculation include:

    • Early sexual experiences
    • Sexual abuse
    • Anxiety and Depression
    • Guilty feelings that increase your tendency to rush through sexual encounters

    Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

    Erectile dysfunction (ED) is when men are unable to get or keep an erection during sexual intercourse. Causes of Erectile Dysfunction include (10):

    • Diseases affecting blood flow such as hardening of the arteries
    • Stress, relationship conflicts, depression, and performance anxiety
    • Injury to the penis
    • Nerve disorders
    • Diabetes and high blood pressure
    • Excessive smoking and drinking, overeating, and lack of exercise

    Causes of Female Sexual Disorders

    There are various factors affecting female sexual dysfunctions like hormonal changes but there certain physical and psychological causes which affect male fertility.

    • Physical Causes: Physical causes related to female sexual dysfunction can be chronic diseases such as diabetes and hypertension, kidney problems and liver failure, neurological disorders, heart diseases and consumption of alcohol and smoking tobacco. 
    • Psychological Causes: Psychological causes include stress related to sexual performance, relationship conflicts, anxiety, effects of past sexual trauma and depression.

    Treatments Related to Men and Women Sexual Dysfunction

    Female sexual disorders can be treated by encouraging non-coital behaviors, ultrasound monitoring enhancing stimulation as well as medications and surgical procedures if required. Sexual problems related to men can be treated by physical analysis and examination of the medical history of men, semen analysis, hormone testing, post-ejaculation urinalysis, ultrasound monitoring, and other specialized sperm function tests.

    Lovemaking is an intensely personal experience, one in which, both the partners should be considerate of each other’s feelings and needs. It is helpful and important to talk to your partner about your needs. For those having issues like premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction, seeing a doctor is crucial for hassle-free penetration of the penis into the vagina. Sexually active couples should get tested for sexually transmitted infections (STI), screenings, sexual wellness, and contraception, in order to healthy and enjoyable sex life. If you and your partner are planning a baby and want any guidance or help, feel free to contact or talk to the medical experts at +918929020600.

    Dr. Manavita Mahajan

    Written by

    Diploma, Diploma, MBBS, Gynecology Training, MD, WHO Fellowship, MRCOG, FRCOG, Endoscopy Training
    Laparoscopic Surgeon, Gynecologic Surgeon
    Dr. Manavita Mahajan is counted among the well-known gynaecologists in Gurgaon. She has completed MBBS from the University of Delhi in 1990 and pursued MD from Postgraduate Institute of Medical Education and Research, Chandigarh in 1993 and MRCOG from Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, London in 1998. She has been practising as a successful Gynecologist for many years. She is a member of the Indian Association of Gynaecological Endoscopists and The Royal College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, London and Federation of Obstetrics and Gynecological Societies of India. She holds her expertise in the treatment of uterine fibroids and management of ectopic pregnancy and high-risk pregnancy care. Dr. Manavita Mahajan is an Intrauterine Insemination (IUI) specialist and is practising at Fortis Memorial Research Institute in Gurgaon. The contact details of Dr. Manavita Mahajan is presented at



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