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Definite Ways to Tell You're in Love With the Right Person

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Falling in love is one of the most beautiful experiences in a persons life. However, at times, there is no guarantee that your feelings are true. Some interesting facts and a little help in recognizing your actual feelings might just be what you need to tell true love from momentary infatuation.

Falling in love is one of the most beautiful, interesting and exciting things that could ever happen between a man and a woman. It’s more than just saying ‘I love you”. There are no boundaries for falling in love and it's often the little everyday things that are actually the signs of falling in love. Once you're in love with someone, you can experience so much change in your life, from how you interact with others or how you view yourself to what goals you have for the future. When it’s five in the morning when your arm drifts to the other side of the bed, searching for their warmth or aching so deeply for their presence next to you, you imagine what they’d say to you, or what they’re doing, a few cubicles or three thousand miles away from you. He/ She is someone who makes you smile, the greatest catalyst of the happiness and joy in your life.

Love is extremely subjective and demanding, you love being around them and you tend to feel better in their presence rather than feeling more satisfied.

If love is the basis of your emotional comfort, passion or security, commitment is the necessary decision made within one’s cultural and social contexts to be with that person. You want each moment to grow for a long term and last forever and time seems to simply bears no weight each time when you’re together. Every man and woman experiences love differently, at different places and at different times. But sometimes it is difficult to say if you really love that person. This article will help you find out if you are really falling in love with the right person rather than mere infatuation”.

How do you know if you are really in love or the feeling is a short lived one? You need to question yourself today how many of these are true about you and your relationship.

Given below are some interesting points to be kept in mind as you try to understand if you are really falling in love with the right person:

1. He/she is the best part of your day

When you are in love with someone you never really get tired of them. No matter what you are going through, do they still make rough times any better for you? You are never bored of conversing with them and they tend to be the first and the last person you think about when you wake up or go to sleep. You display both emotions of being sympathetic and empathetic when something happens to them which may be another sign that you are in love with him.

she is the best part of your day

2. You want them and your family to get closer

According to recent research it has been found that people in a person’s social circle often play an important role in the success of a relationship. You want your family and relationship to be nurtured and strengthened from time to time.

You become more conscious as to how your family and friends might think about your partner and this is a good sign that you are becoming increasingly attached to the person and further for improving and strengthening relationships between them and your family. You want your feelings to be connected emotionally and you want to introduce them to people who are important to you such as your family and friends.

3. You're trying new things

One of the most important things that conveys the message that you are head over heels in love with someone is when you find yourself consistently trying new things in order to impress them. According to a recent research it has been found out that people who have claimed to be in love usually develop varied interest and personality traits after those relationships, which could have a positive effect on their personality.

Your relationship with that particular person takes your emotions to a new level where you learn to understand more, learn to trust more, encourage more growth and diversity of your own self-concepts, change and branch out beyond your normal range of activities and try those that your love interest favor. 

4. You want to be together all the time

Nothing feels better when you are with them because you can't help falling in love with them. You don’t mind if you are left alone with the person you love at home and try out something new like watching a movie, cooking or simply sitting next to each other and just enjoying each others company. Falling in love with someone surpasses all other superficial things and the only thing that matters to you is spending time together even if it means sitting together in silence for hours. Whereas in tough times spending time together to feel stronger. If you truly love a person you are ready to face all the odds and you have that zeal and enthusiasm of always wanting to be around them, even if it's impractical.

you want to be together all the time

5. You talk about them all the time

You just can’t stop taking their name; you mention them all the time whether you are with your friends or with your family to the point where it can get a little annoying for others. When you are in love with someone you love remembering them, their favorites and every little things that are meaningful to you. No matter where you go, you can’t help it because that person just pops into your head at the most random times.

6. You listen to them

Lately if you are showing some genuine interest in your life and listening more attentively when he/she is speaking and remember every minute details of things that they have told you, then you are in love with that person. It shows that you try to fit in other parts of his life as well and not just living in a microcosm of the relationship.

7. You comfort them at the worst of situations

Another good sign of proving yourself that you are actually in love is the way you treat them when they are at their worst. You tend to be more compassionate and attentive than the usual days and think its important to give them a shoulder to cry on.

8. When you talk positive things about the future

When you're in love with someone, you always try to figure out your future with the person you love. You possibly cannot imagine a future without him/her, its only natural that you start talking about having a lovely home, starting a family, about what your lives will look like after one, two, or even ten years in the future together, then they you are probably in love.

Hopefully, this article has given you a fair idea and understanding about recognizing and differentiating true love from a intense liking. Apart from interesting reads on love and relationships, follow Elawoman blog to get regular updates on fertility health and IVF treatments.

Dr. Hemlata Singhal

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Obstetrician, Laparoscopic Surgeon Dr. Hemlata Singhal

Dr. Hemlata Singhal is an infertility specialist and gynecologist who completed her MBBS and DGO from King George's Medical College, Lucknow University in the year 1985 and 1989 respectively. Later on, Dr. Hemlata went on to pursue Fellowship in Minimal Access Surgery from World Laparoscopy Hospital, Gurgaon in the year 2013. Dr. Hemlata specializes in IUI treatment, Normal vaginal delivery, Gynecology Laparoscopy and Hysterectomy procedures. She is a member of Federation of Obstetric and Gynecological Societies of India (FOGSI) and World Association of Laparoscopic Surgeons (WALS). At present, Dr. Hemlata is practicing her expertise at City Medical Centre, South City, Gurgaon and Miracles Mediclinic, Sector 56, Gurgaon. For more information, visit


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