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Safe Sex after Period Calculator - Know about the measures of safe sex

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Medically Reviewed by Dr. Deepika Tiwari - MBBS on 31 Aug 2018 - Written by Dr. Sunil Eshwar - MBBS - Grammatically Approved by Dr. Kavita Jaggi Agrawal - MBBS

Safe sex can be performed with the assistance of birth control pills. Safe sex after period calculator helps in finding out the best days to have sex. When a couple agrees to both of these aspects, then pregnancy can be effectively avoided without facing any side effects.

While you are planning to avoid pregnancy, it is important that you and your partner should have safer sex and a protected sexual health. It is important to have safer sex or safe sex so that you may not get infected by any of the sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). It is obvious that you may feel hesitated and nervous for how to have safe sex, especially if you are a teenager. On the other hand, if you are planning a baby, any kind of infection or disease prior pregnancy can affect afterward. You need to talk to your partner about how to have safe sex and birth control methods.

Why to discuss safe sex with your partner?

1- It is an important part of being sexually active to talk about how to have safe sex or safer sex. You may feel nervous and hesitated about how to get those birth control pills or condoms, but you need to protect your sexual health from mutual concern with your partner.

2- You should talk to your partner on how to have safe sex so that you may not get infected with any of the sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

3- It is necessary that you talk about how to have safe sex because it would be much more difficult for you to handle if you get pregnant accidentally or get an unplanned pregnancy.

4- If you are having vaginal sex, you should use both condoms and any other birth control method like a birth control pill or IUD. They will protect you from STDs and Pregnancy both.
talking about safe sex with your partner
So talk about both the methods to have safe sex.

5- If you are into anal sexual intercourse, you should use a condom and a lubricant. These lubricants are highly effective as they kill the sperm and do not let it survive for long. Talk about both the methods to your partner.

6- For oral sex, you need to talk about choosing dental dam and condom. You can get STDs from any kind of sex. So even if you are having oral sex, you need to talk to your partner on how to have safe sex.

7- Talking about safer sex is necessary not only to avoid pregnancy but to protect yourself from sexually transmitted diseases as well.

It can be annoying to your partner to have a safer sex. While some of the male partner may not find it important to have safe sex due to lack of awareness and interest. You need to take out the right time to consult and let him know all about safe sex.

How to talk about safe sex with your partner?

1- Keep yourself prepared first. Do not get presume that your partner will not understand. Believe your relationship and go ahead with a positive heart.

2- Find the most suitable time when you and your partner both are relaxed. This way you both can focus on the benefits of safer sex or safe sex. Don’t be aggressive and stay calm while initiating the conversation.

3- Show your partner the concern that you want to have safe sex for both of you.
Show your partner to safe sex
Let them know that its not only about you, it about both of you and your health.

4- Give a clear statement that without protection; you are not going to have any sexual intercourse. Sometimes, you have to be a bit strong by mind, especially when it's about your sexual health.

5- Talk to your partner lovingly worry about getting any STDs or unplanned pregnancy too and let him know that it’s much enjoyable to have a safer sex. With protection, you both need not.

6- Find out all the methods, which you both can use with mutual concern. This will even not burden any of your pockets and you will enjoy finding how to have safe sex.

Choose your time and words wisely. Talk to your partner and find best ways to have a safer sex. It will protect you from sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and will help you avoid unplanned pregnancy.

Hope, this article has helped youresolveyour query on how to talk about safe sex with your partner. Follow Elawoman blog to get regular updates on fertility health and treatment.

Dr. Sunil Eshwar

Written by

Infertility Specialist, IVF Specialist

Dr. Sunil Eshwar is an Infertility specialist who is presently specializing in laparoscopic surgery, high-risk pregnancies and infertility treatments such as IVF and IUI. Dr. Sunil Eshwar completed his MBBS from Bangalore Medical College and Research Institute in 2000 and MD from Jawaharlal Institute of Postgraduate Medical Education and Research (JIPMER) in 2004. Later, he completed DNB from National Board of Examination in 2006. Dr. Sunil Eshwar is currently practicing at Apollo Fertility, Brookfield, Bangalore. For more information about Dr. Sunil Eshwar, visit


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Shobhita Nayak

Thanks for sharing! I try to read something new every day and it was a good read. I loved the way how this article flows.

Oct. 28, 2018, 12:56 p.m. 5.0


Leela Magar

IUD is a better option to avoid unwanted pregnancy, but my husband denies me to have them. How should I convince him?

Sept. 18, 2018, 9:23 a.m. 4.5



My husband doesn't like using contraceptives, do we have some other options to avoid pregnancy. Please suggest!

July 12, 2018, 2:29 p.m. 4.5


Ganesh Bherma

Good article, every couple should read and try this. Worth sharing!

Jan. 21, 2018, 12:14 a.m. 5.0


Shrabani Saha

For me, it's very important to discuss safe sex with my partner. I have lot of issues with body. I ovulate so much that I got pregnant even with the precum. Unfortunately, I had to abort it because I didn't want the child and from now I feel it is very important to have safe sex.

Oct. 30, 2017, 12:01 p.m. 5.0


Aditi Singh

If your partner really loves you and you two share a good understanding then talking about safe sex with your partner shouldn't be a difficult thing to do.

Oct. 30, 2017, 12:01 p.m. 4.5


Garima Baxi

My husband and I are very understanding, we really discuss everything including sex and we plan it each and every time. It helps us to use our fertile days.

Sept. 26, 2017, 11:10 a.m. 4.5

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